To be happy in a chapter in my life was a great thing, but with it comes the pressure to find that happiness again when a new chapter begins. After college I cried and cried. I decided that I didn't want anything about my life to change and that I would never find the security of the place that I was being forced to leave. Luckily, most of my friends were feeling the same anxieties about starting over.
It is never good to cling to the past because the future, although daunting at times, is always waiting for you to one moment at a time. Friends come and go, you will change (believe it or not), but experiences last forever. Before you know it, another " open door" will be dangling in front of you. While you might approach it with the same curiosity, you will have less fear.
" This future never shows up because we are always at the present moment. We need to learn how to enjoy the moment just the way it is at this moment and now. It is what it is. Leave the life alone. Accept the moment the way it is and imagine this is exactly what your soul asked and designed it. This is exactly what you asked for. When we say accepting, that does not mean accept any wrong doing or malfunction in the life just the way it is. For example as driving if your car falls into a huge puddle and your are stuck, you would not say oh well I will accept it and will not take any action. At that time the acceptance means “No judgment”. Do not allow your mind to take charge to judge the incident. No thinking and judging whatsoever. Accept what happened totally. Then when there is no judgment, the right solution will come from within spontaneously. You don’t know how it came but our conscious will be in charge and show us the way rather than our imperfect chattering and judging mind. So just Accept then Take Action. Accept, Take Action. Accept, Take action."
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